Why Should I Make a Mud Pie?
Sticks, mud, leaves, and rocks are the tools children use to
learn and play with and these items are all found right in their backyard. This
week we will be talking about this type of play; called nature play. Nature
play has been a growing practice around the world in places like Europe and
Australia. Nature Play embodies several different concepts including free play,
theatrical or imaginative play, and outdoor play. The common root of these ideas
is learning lifelong lessons through hands on experiences with nature without
the interruption of adults. There are lessons for our young ones to learn from
trial and error, working together as a team, and expressing their ideas through
creativity, all while doing it by themselves.
When children work and play by themselves they create stronger connections to
how and why something did or did not work. If a child is playing with blocks
and someone builds a tower for them, they never truly got the chance to
experience the why or how the blocks can stack together without tumbling over.
Why encourage playing in nature? Connecting with the outdoor
world brings life to our imagination. A plastic
toy boat is a boat, but a stick with a dose of imagination can be a spoon, a
wand or a key to the unexplored world found in the woods. Daily time spend
outdoors has also been proven to be just as important as the right amount of
sleep and a healthy diet for our child to develop properly.
In
order to truly understand this concept it helps to look back on your own
childhood. Reminisce on the memories you hold while playing outdoors. Most of
us will remember a time when mom told us to take our roughhousing outside until
dinner time, a time when it was okay to roam the woods until the street lights
came on, a time when stirring soups made from mud, grass, and flowers was
commonplace, and time when all the kids in the neighborhood were climbing trees
until we could see the top of our houses. These are the kind of memories the
next generation needs in order to appreciate the wonder found in the forest. If
they appreciate the wonder then they will grow up to respect the Earth and
become “greener” citizens of the community.
“If we want children to flourish, to become truly empowered,
then let us allow them to love the earth before we ask them to save it.” –
David Sobel
You are the Magician
How to help create the magical memories of outdoor
exploration for your young ones is easier than you may think. An important
thread throughout these nature play experiences is the lack of adult
interruption. It is important to sit back and watch your child play. Letting
them work through challenges is just as important as letting them play in their
imaginary world. When they work by themselves it allows them to create the
necessary stepping stones to figuring out the problem at hand. As adults we
know that not every personality gets along in harmony,
but we learn to work
with others. When children play and argue together they learn the important
lifelong lessons of working together.
With younger children or in cases where your child decides
to climb trees or cross the creek over a fallen log, adult supervision may be
necessary. However letting them work
through the challenges helps them to become confident in their decisions
whether they fail or succeed. This doesn’t mean you cannot bond with your
children over nature play. We as adults have our opinions and presumptions, but
it is key for us to put them aside. Guiding your children through play with
what you say is important. When interacting with children try to keep your
questions and words open ended. Ask questions that allow them to teach you
about their world.
The Messier the Merrier
Nature play activities to try with
your children are endless and super cheap! All you need is materials from the
backyard and a sprinkle of imagination. Nature soup is an easy go to activity that
encourages children to exercise their imagination while getting their hands
dirty. If you don’t mind the mess of the soup, try making mud pies.
For a little less adult interaction
try setting up a discovery blanket. It’s as simple as placing a blanket in the
grass and setting out pine cones, seeds or anything that will catch their
attention and see where their imagination leads them. Now that you have the
tools and ideas. Start creating those positive memories of the outdoors with
your kids and watch the magic happen!